Signs you are dating a controlling man
You shouldn’t need to confer with someone whether or not you really need to buy those shoes, especially if you don’t have a joint bank account. He’s such a know-it-all he thinks he can do and fix everything himself, despite the fact that he has no experience with something like say leaky pipes, but god forbid he would ever think about calling a plumber. Usually, once you tell him, he’s disappointed anyway.
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Time to face it, you could be dating a control freak. *Yawn*When the love infatuation fades and things start to get REAL it's only then when you Sounds familiar, right?
When it feels like the fun is being sucked out of your relationship it's time to reassess, because love is are supposed to be fun, not leave you feeling like you can't be yourself. Controlling guys can't bare the thought of not knowing where you are and what you're doing. If your man's calling you off the hook, texting 'what are you doing? Control freaks will basically try to own you so when it comes down to who you talk to and who you see they will most definitely try to take control.
Any time you feel frightened or intimidated in a relationship, it’s time to get out.
Any type of imbalance of power or controlling behavior in a relationship is unhealthy.
It’s a given that if someone is abusing alcohol or drugs the relationship will be unhealthy, but there are many other warning signs that you should be aware of. Any behavior that is aggressive is unhealthy, but actual physical abuse is just one type of aggressive behavior.
and even worse than that is telling someone what they can’t wear.
If your partner freaks out every time you show a little cleavage, it’s probably time to use it to find their replacement. And there’s really no reason for it because, duh, your friends are awesome.
Do you constantly feel like you're walking on egg shells in your relationship?
Are you always afraid of what might make him explode?